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Planning A Baby Shower - Ask The New Parents
My niece is pregnant with her first baby. We have always been close
so I let her know that I would help her with any thing she needed
help with in getting ready for the baby. There are many things to
do in getting ready for a baby.
We needed to prepare a room for the baby as well as purchase items
that are needed when adding a baby into the home. I told my niece
that I wanted to have a shower for her and her husband. I encouraged
her to register at a number of local department stores for things
that were needed for the baby.
Planning a baby shower takes some time. The major time factor was
coordinating things with my niece. In planning a baby shower I wanted
to make sure that I was including everyone that she wanted to invite.
I was taking extra care in this because when my sister had a baby
shower for a friend she had invited people that the mother to be
did not want at the shower. This made for an uncomfortable time
for everyone.
The other part of planning a baby shower that is difficult is deciding
when the shower is to take place. My niece wanted to wait until
after the baby arrived so that the people attending the shower could
see the baby. This was fine, except that some of the items on her
gift register were for things that are needed as soon as the baby
arrives home. My niece mentioned that one of her co-workers was
also planning a baby shower for her. I got the name of the co-worker
so that we could coordinate the two baby showers to best fit with
my niece’s wishes.
When I spoke with the co-worker planning a baby shower I found
out that she was planning on having the shower the last day my niece
was scheduled to work before the beginning of her maternity leave.
I explained that I was planning to have a shower after the birth
of the baby. We decided that we would tell the guests this so they
could pick out their gifts accordingly. I would be including relatives
and she would include co-workers, so people would not be invited
to two showers.
When planning a baby shower you can get cards from the department
stores where the mother has registered to place in the shower invitations.
Having these cards to insert cuts down on the amount of information
you need to write on the invitations.
Planning a baby shower should include as much input from the new
parents as possible. Try to include the new dad also so he is not
feeling left out of the process. The baby shower should concentrate
on celebrating the new life of a child.
Author:
Tod Cox
Article writer for NewBabyFacts.com.
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